Lillyx Posted October 7, 2021 Share Posted October 7, 2021 Why do i get attention even when being 'ugly' as my ex kept saying too me. need advice should i change to shut him up? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte115 Posted October 7, 2021 Share Posted October 7, 2021 hell no. Just because a guy that you used to date calls you ugly doesn't mean you are and by changing yourself just means he gets what he wants. Stand up for yourself and don't change for anyone FYI you are not ugly you are beautiful 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 7, 2021 Author Share Posted October 7, 2021 thank you. so kind of you! your beautiful too MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 7, 2021 Author Share Posted October 7, 2021 i just can't seem to be 'pretty' MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 7, 2021 Share Posted October 7, 2021 1 hour ago, Blue22031 said: hell no. Just because a guy that you used to date calls you ugly doesn't mean you are and by changing yourself just means he gets what he wants. Stand up for yourself and don't change for anyone FYI you are not ugly you are beautiful Hey @Lillyrose4 I think that this is such a good point. People can often say mean things because of their own insecurities or hang ups, and they often don't mean what they are saying. They also might say things like this because they are upset and want to hurt you. What do you think? Do you think he meant it? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 7, 2021 Author Share Posted October 7, 2021 5 minutes ago, Monsoon said: Hey @Lillyrose4 I think that this is such a good point. People can often say mean things because of their own insecurities or hang ups, and they often don't mean what they are saying. They also might say things like this because they are upset and want to hurt you. What do you think? Do you think he meant it? i know im ugly and i tihnk he did. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 8, 2021 Share Posted October 8, 2021 Hey Lily, Sorry to hear you're feeling low about yourself. Can I ask, has there been a time when you felt better about how you look? If so, what was that like? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 8, 2021 Author Share Posted October 8, 2021 5 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey Lily, Sorry to hear you're feeling low about yourself. Can I ask, has there been a time when you felt better about how you look? If so, what was that like? it was amazing. I was so loving myself now i dont think i am as pretty or worth anything like others are MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 8, 2021 Share Posted October 8, 2021 Hey Lily, I'm glad to hear that it was amazing for you. Can I ask, when you did feel that way, what things did you love about yourself? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 8, 2021 Author Share Posted October 8, 2021 8 minutes ago, Monsoon said: Hey Lily, I'm glad to hear that it was amazing for you. Can I ask, when you did feel that way, what things did you love about yourself? my little girl MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 8, 2021 Share Posted October 8, 2021 8 minutes ago, Lillyrose4 said: my little girl Hey Lily, That's lovely; how old is she? I'm wondering, if you could ask the person who knows you best to describe three things they like about you, what would they say? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 8, 2021 Author Share Posted October 8, 2021 Just now, Monsoon said: Hey Lily, That's lovely; how old is she? I'm wondering, if you could ask the person who knows you best to describe the best three things about you, what would they say? it's Lilly lol! She isn't even 1 yrs old bless her. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a human_56 Posted October 9, 2021 Share Posted October 9, 2021 Yeah, just like Blue said, you're beautiful no matter what the person you used to date told you also your kid must be soo cute 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 9, 2021 Author Share Posted October 9, 2021 21 minutes ago, a human_56 said: Yeah, just like Blue said, you're beautiful no matter what the person you used to date told you also your kid must be soo cute she has my eyes! lucky to have her i really am MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 9, 2021 Author Share Posted October 9, 2021 22 minutes ago, a human_56 said: Yeah, just like Blue said, you're beautiful no matter what the person you used to date told you also your kid must be soo cute how you doing today? I am not doing too great lol MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 9, 2021 Share Posted October 9, 2021 22 hours ago, Lillyrose4 said: it's Lilly lol! She isn't even 1 yrs old bless her. Hey Lilly, Aww, she is really young then, isn't she? I'm wondering, if you could describe the three best things about you, like parts of your personality or things you're good at, what would you choose? It can be really powerful to remember the things we like about ourselves when we are feeling low MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 9, 2021 Author Share Posted October 9, 2021 1 hour ago, Monsoon said: Hey Lilly, Aww, she is really young then, isn't she? I'm wondering, if you could describe the three best things about you, like parts of your personality or things you're good at, what would you choose? It can be really powerful to remember the things we like about ourselves when we are feeling low My knowledge, My eyes and good genes! you? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 10, 2021 Share Posted October 10, 2021 Hey, Thank you for coming up with some more positive things I wonder, for the next 10 times you're feeling low about yourself, why don't you write down the things you like about yourself and see if it makes you feel any better? It can take a while, but eventually, we can train our minds to shift more towards the things we like about ourselves. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 10, 2021 Author Share Posted October 10, 2021 1 minute ago, Monsoon said: Hey, Thank you for coming up with some more positive things I wonder, for the next 10 times you're feeling low about yourself, why don't you write down the things you like about yourself and see if it makes you feel any better? It can take a while, but eventually, we can train our minds to shift more towards the things we like about ourselves. welcome! I have no idea lol MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 11, 2021 Share Posted October 11, 2021 Hey there, That's fine. I guess that it takes work to be able to shift our mindset to a more positive one, but it really is possible MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 12, 2021 Author Share Posted October 12, 2021 I don't need support but I feel so groggy need to shower been in a room for 48 hours ughhh 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 58 minutes ago, Lillyrose4 said: I don't need support but I feel so groggy need to shower been in a room for 48 hours ughhh Hey there, Ah, yeah, I get that. I will reply to your message now and we can carry on talking there 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 12, 2021 Author Share Posted October 12, 2021 2 minutes ago, Monsoon said: Hey there, Ah, yeah, I get that. I will reply to your message now and we can carry on talking there okayyy 2 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XSnowX Posted October 17, 2021 Share Posted October 17, 2021 On 10/7/2021 at 5:44 PM, Lillyrose4 said: Why do i get attention even when being 'ugly' as my ex kept saying too me. need advice should i change to shut him up? Your not ugly. He is trying to get a reaction from you by telling you things that he is making up. Don't take any notice from him he is not worth crying over. We care about you ❤ On 10/7/2021 at 5:55 PM, Lillyrose4 said: i just can't seem to be 'pretty' Your personality is pretty your whole self is pretty MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 17, 2021 Author Share Posted October 17, 2021 1 hour ago, JessFlower33 said: Your not ugly. He is trying to get a reaction from you by telling you things that he is making up. Don't take any notice from him he is not worth crying over. We care about you ❤ Your personality is pretty your whole self is pretty aw thx MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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