Star23 Posted October 6, 2021 Share Posted October 6, 2021 Hi! I am lesbian and have wanted to come out for like a year now, but am WAY to scared. Kinda odd, since I live in a very LGBTQ+ supportive school/community. Here I'd like to give tips on finding your sexuality and I'll also gladly receive tips MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 7, 2021 Share Posted October 7, 2021 Hey there, It's great that you know your identity already How does it feel now that you've known for a year? I think that before anyone comes out, there is definitely an element of fear, and that's totally normal. It sounds like you are in a really supportive environment and that you'll have a positive experience coming out. I'm wondering, can you tell me a little bit more about the fear that you're feeling at the moment? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Star23 Posted October 8, 2021 Author Share Posted October 8, 2021 I have always been a very secretive person, and I think I might have trust issues. I think the fear I have is mostly being so vulnerable and revealing such a huge secret. I did just last evening send my mom a meme, (maybe not the best way to come out) and she has not responded since. She does have a ton of unopened emails, but... MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 8, 2021 Share Posted October 8, 2021 Hey there, Yeah, I totally get that tendency to be secretive and how it can be scary being so vulnerable. I'm wondering, has there been a time in the past where you've been vulnerable and it's gone well? If so, can you tell me some more about that? Also, do you think the meme makes it clear what your sexuality is? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Star23 Posted October 9, 2021 Author Share Posted October 9, 2021 I don't remember a time when I have really been vulnerable. I've never really shared stuff like that. Also, the meme says "... I'm lesbian" and ha a picture of a cat because cats are awesome. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 9, 2021 Share Posted October 9, 2021 On 10/7/2021 at 12:47 AM, Star23 said: Hi! I am lesbian and have wanted to come out for like a year now, but am WAY to scared. Kinda odd, since I live in a very LGBTQ+ supportive school/community. Here I'd like to give tips on finding your sexuality and I'll also gladly receive tips I'm Bi! congrat gurlll MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted October 9, 2021 Share Posted October 9, 2021 12 hours ago, Star23 said: I don't remember a time when I have really been vulnerable. I've never really shared stuff like that. Also, the meme says "... I'm lesbian" and ha a picture of a cat because cats are awesome. Hey there, Okay, so I'm wondering, what do you think might happen when you reveal this part of yourself? I know it might be hard to face the possibility of doing it, but how do you think you might feel afterwards? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a human_56 Posted October 10, 2021 Share Posted October 10, 2021 On 10/7/2021 at 7:47 AM, Star23 said: Hi! I am lesbian and have wanted to come out for like a year now, but am WAY to scared. Kinda odd, since I live in a very LGBTQ+ supportive school/community. Here I'd like to give tips on finding your sexuality and I'll also gladly receive tips Congrats, I'm lesbian too Come out whenever you feel comfortable, and it's okay to stay in the closet 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
789 Posted October 27, 2021 Share Posted October 27, 2021 On 10/7/2021 at 12:47 AM, Star23 said: Hi! I am lesbian and have wanted to come out for like a year now, but am WAY to scared. Kinda odd, since I live in a very LGBTQ+ supportive school/community. Here I'd like to give tips on finding your sexuality and I'll also gladly receive tips I'm trying to figure my sexuality out at the moment. I was wondering how you figured out your sexuality? Totally fine if you don't want to share but it would be helpful. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lillyx Posted October 27, 2021 Share Posted October 27, 2021 On 10/10/2021 at 3:10 AM, a human_56 said: Congrats, I'm lesbian too Come out whenever you feel comfortable, and it's okay to stay in the closet im Bi :) MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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