Awesome_ninja Posted July 30, 2021 Share Posted July 30, 2021 11 minutes ago, Monsoon said: Hey @Awesome_ninja No need to apologise at all - we are here to help you It's good to know that your mum will support you. I see that you've said your dad is homophobic as well as other people in your family. I'm wondering, how has this been for you? What kind of things have they said and done? I hope you're okay. Speak soon. I openly asked my dad about a week ago what he would think if I came out as lesbian or bi or something and he just went silent and I could see he was very uncomfortable so I bought up the topic with my other relatives and they had the same reaction although some were much worse than others and I have the feeling that my dad may kick me out if I tell him. It has been really hard to keep this a secret for so long because I never hide things from my parents and always try to tell the truth so I have accidentally been leaving clues for my mum and that is why I found this website. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted July 30, 2021 Share Posted July 30, 2021 Hey, That's interesting that they were silent. I'm wondering, what do you think some other reasons for their silence might be? I've heard a few people say this, and it can sometimes be because they don't know what to say and are shocked. Also, I completely get what you're saying about how it's hard to keep this kind of thing a secret. However, it's good that you're opening up to others because this will help you to work through it How are you feeling today? 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Awesome_ninja Posted August 1, 2021 Share Posted August 1, 2021 Yesterday was my 12th birthday (thats why i wasn’t really online) and I decided I couldn’t keep the secret alone anymore so when my mum tucked my into bed, I just burst out crying and she got really upset because she thought I didn’t enjoy my birthday until we were both crying so I had to tell her. She cried some more but she got over it quite quickly and asked me questions like how did I know, how long did I know etc and I answered all of them. After that, she said she will always love me just the way I am and she will help me tell my dad when I feel ready and then she carried on as normal (although when we get onto the topic now, she is careful what she says). 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArtemisArt Posted August 1, 2021 Share Posted August 1, 2021 Good job telling your mom 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted August 1, 2021 Share Posted August 1, 2021 @Awesome_ninja Well done for telling them! How are you feeling now? I bet you feel so much better. 1 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idk123gb Posted August 1, 2021 Share Posted August 1, 2021 On 6/17/2021 at 11:47 PM, Koala girl said: Hi I’m bisexual. I created this group for anyone who is bisexual and we can talk about anything. Koala girl Hi !! Sorry for the big text but i kinda need some answers.. I've been questioning my sexuality for 3 years. In 2018 i thought i was bi because i liked a girl i met online, as the time went by i started to loose the feelings and later i identified as straight. I tought it was just a little crush/phase. This year i started to question my sexuality again and i think that i might be bi. Saying im straight doesn't sit right to me. But some times i dont feel confident when i think im bi beacuse i never made out with a girl. Im looking for some answers. Thanks ! <33 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Awesome_ninja Posted August 1, 2021 Share Posted August 1, 2021 7 hours ago, Saphira said: Good job telling your mom Thanks, now I have told my mum, I’m telling my dad tomorrow and I think I will be ok then! Thank you for helping me through this. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 On 8/1/2021 at 5:18 PM, idk123gb said: Hi !! Sorry for the big text but i kinda need some answers.. I've been questioning my sexuality for 3 years. In 2018 i thought i was bi because i liked a girl i met online, as the time went by i started to loose the feelings and later i identified as straight. I tought it was just a little crush/phase. This year i started to question my sexuality again and i think that i might be bi. Saying im straight doesn't sit right to me. But some times i dont feel confident when i think im bi beacuse i never made out with a girl. Im looking for some answers. Thanks ! <33 Hey, I saw your other post abut this, so I've replied there. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
willow-in-purple Posted August 9, 2021 Share Posted August 9, 2021 On 6/17/2021 at 5:47 PM, Koala girl said: Hi I’m bisexual. I created this group for anyone who is bisexual and we can talk about anything. Koala girl Im queer but not bi, can I join? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sophh Posted August 24, 2021 Share Posted August 24, 2021 On 6/17/2021 at 5:47 PM, Koala girl said: Hi I’m bisexual. I created this group for anyone who is bisexual and we can talk about anything. Koala girl Hii I think I'm bi too and I would love talking with u:)) I don't really know how to use this lmaoo MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zookid Posted September 9, 2021 Share Posted September 9, 2021 I all ready came out to my mom but when to come out to my dad. Any one have advice? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BiForLife15 Posted September 9, 2021 Share Posted September 9, 2021 Don't put it off Sooner is a lot better than later. 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zookid Posted September 9, 2021 Share Posted September 9, 2021 18 hours ago, BiForLife15 said: Don't put it off Sooner is a lot better than later. Thank you 1 MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zookid Posted September 9, 2021 Share Posted September 9, 2021 18 hours ago, BiForLife15 said: Don't put it off Sooner is a lot better than later. Thank you MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zookid Posted September 11, 2021 Share Posted September 11, 2021 You are very helpful MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BiForLife15 Posted September 11, 2021 Share Posted September 11, 2021 Hope it helped MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zookid Posted September 11, 2021 Share Posted September 11, 2021 1 hour ago, BiForLife15 said: Hope it helped MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FreakNamedKai Posted September 20, 2021 Share Posted September 20, 2021 Im bisexual and i just told my parents.. my dad was not happy.. MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted September 20, 2021 Share Posted September 20, 2021 3 hours ago, BiShadow!23 said: Im bisexual and i just told my parents.. my dad was not happy.. Hey, How are you feeling? I hope you're doing as well as you can be. I just replied to your post about your sexuality and then saw this. I'm sorry to hear that he was not happy - can you tell me more about what happened? It's totally okay if you don't want to talk about it though. I know that it might not seem like it now, but in this kind of situation, the parent usually just needs some time to calm down and process what has happened, and it does usually get better. I've talked a lot about this in my other reply, so please take a look, and I hope to hear back from you soon. Just remember that we are here for you and you're not alone MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BiForLife15 Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 Hello MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FreakNamedKai Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 22 hours ago, Monsoon said: Hey, How are you feeling? I hope you're doing as well as you can be. I just replied to your post about your sexuality and then saw this. I'm sorry to hear that he was not happy - can you tell me more about what happened? It's totally okay if you don't want to talk about it though. I know that it might not seem like it now, but in this kind of situation, the parent usually just needs some time to calm down and process what has happened, and it does usually get better. I've talked a lot about this in my other reply, so please take a look, and I hope to hear back from you soon. Just remember that we are here for you and you're not alone Thank you for this really!!!! MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted September 22, 2021 Share Posted September 22, 2021 23 hours ago, BiShadow!23 said: Thank you for this really!!!! Hey @BiShadow!23 That's okay I just wanted to check in and see how everything is going after telling your dad? How are you doing? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon Posted September 22, 2021 Share Posted September 22, 2021 On 9/21/2021 at 9:49 AM, BiForLife15 said: Hello Hey @BiForLife15 How's it going for you at the moment? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clara Posted October 3, 2021 Share Posted October 3, 2021 does anyone here have any tips for coming out to your parents as bi? MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte115 Posted October 3, 2021 Share Posted October 3, 2021 Just now, clara said: does anyone here have any tips for coming out to your parents as bi? just be chill about it, maybe leave a note lying around saying that you like both boys and girls. That's what i did and they were pretty cool about it MultiQuote Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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