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tips on how to find out if I am lesbian or bi?


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Hi,

I am Britt and lately I have been struggling with myself and my sexuality.

 

I have been thinking that I am bi for a long time but now I am not sure. Lately I have been more into girls then boys and I found out that I never even really liked a guy. Most of the time when I think I like a guy I only feel pyshically attracted to them. I know that when you're bi you can also lean more towards girls then boys but the fact that I never even really liked any guy makes me reconsider my sexuality.

Any tips on how to find out if you are bi or lesbian? thank you so much!

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@britt32 Hi! A lot of people are pretty fluid with attraction so you're right in that if you are bi, you may have a stronger attraction to either guys/girls. As you are still physically attracted to to guys it does sound more like bi.

 

That said, pansexuality covers a wider attraction across sexuality and gender too.

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Hi!

Like Blondie said, sexuality is very fluid. I've gone by bisexual for a while, but I'm seriously considering the idea that I may just be lesbian. If you'd have asked me a year ago, I'd have put it as 90% same sex, 10% opposite. Now, I'd say I just like the same sex (females).

But honestly, you don't have to work it out straight away. It feels better to fall into a category, but I'm nearing 19 now and I still haven't fully grasped my sexuality. It's okay to take a while to work it out :)

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