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Well let's start saying that I have this irrational (I would say) fear of doing things alone/by myself, I see people my age going alone to whatever place, using the public transport, etc. But for me this "simple" and "ordinary" activities are quite stressful, I suddenly feel under a spotlight and awkward and start thinking about scenarios that haven't and probably won't occur like getting lost (I have a phone and apps like-) or falling or tripping in the subway stairs and even if they happen i know it wont be the end of the world. It's kind of hard to go out by myself. This next next week I'll start the Uni and will have to go alone and ill be with people that I don't know and I'll start living alone in the city, there are lots of changes and things out of my comfort zone. I'm excited but afraid but excited lol. Any tips? Advice? Encouraging words?
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So, I may have developed feelings for one of my close girl friends and I have no idea what to do. I mean I do want to tell her but I have this fear of rejection so bad, it’s holding me back. And when I think about telling her, we’re always hanging out . I don’t wanna say it in person even though that’s much more better, but I feel like I’d physically throw up everywhere lol and if she did reject me in person, yknow how awkward that would be trying to brush that over. Annnnd I’m scared if I do confess, she’ll look at me weird and slowly try to break off the friendship. I don’t want anything to be uncomfortable or make it seem like I’m a creep.. cuz I did like her once before. Almost 2 years ago. But she did reject me then because some personal stuff she had and she said she didn’t wanna hurt me. There was this one time where she did confess up to me saying she wanted to kiss me once lol but never did cuz she thought that I’d be weirded out. When actually, at that time I liked her . But now idk, I don’t even think she’d be open to the idea… cuz after that little incident I asked her if she did like me and she said “i don’t think I ever would, you’re like my sister” so… haha.. yeah. I also forgot to mention we’re both lgbtq so . But yes this is my depressing ass story .
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Soo, one of my best friends (Let’s call her Lyla) fell out with another girl in my friend group last week. She was totally fine with me, and we would chat and laugh like normal. Today, however, Lyla decides for some bizarre reason that me and my friends have been talking about her (not in a good way.) She, and 2 older girls confronted us in the school bathrooms and said that we had been talking **** about Lyla and her friends, and that they even had proof from messages (which they never showed us.) I honestly have no idea what they are talking about, until today I was under the impression that we were still friends! At lunch about 3 of Lyla’s friends came and asked us if we were talking about her, and also said stuff like “Don’t try to deny it, we already know you were talking about her.” So at this point I’m really upset, but me and my friends still went to the last class (PE.) One of my friends was crying, for some reason… (I don’t even know why, nothing had happened to her!) so she told a teacher EVERYTHING that had happened with Lyla, which made it worse. The teacher took me, Lyla and my other friend into an office and it turns out Lyla had already spoken to her, and now the teacher thinks I have been talking about Lyla too, saying “I get you’re upset, but it is your fault too, for talking about her.” Like, seriously?! note: sorry if it’s confusing to read but it’d be rlly good if someone could give me some advice on what to do!!
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Hello i am a very confused person right now as i have started thinking a little more than i usually do…I don’t know what my sexuality is. Part of me really wants to date someone but the other part of me feels uncomfortable with that. Part of me says i can date any gender the other part says i’m straight. I say that i’d date anyone but do i mean that? i honestly want to be bi or something but then i feel like i can never actually date anyone because the thought of it makes me uncomfortable and it feels wrong, but i really want to be able to date someone. i feel broken and i don’t know what to do. i know i don’t have to find a set answer right now, but i want to try and get somewhere with it. :(
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im genderfluid, and its hard to tell people. i'd like to, because some days being misgendered hurts deep. i'm afraid to tell people and then them like, hate me. idk. anyone who's dealt with this (or not) advice is more than welcome. thanks lovely people
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I'm thinking about coming out of the closet as Pan and Trans male, any tips? I'm scared that everyone might tease me or think I'm joking or just hate me.
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ok so i wanna come out, i already told my close friends but im thinking about telling my whole school (only when they ask tho) the siblings the parents??? most of my family is homophobic and i dont know if i should come out yet
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After a full year of contemplating and getting to know myself, I am a proud bisexual. My close friends know, but my family doesn't (my friends are like my found family. I'm a lot more close and comfortable with them). I want to come out to my family because keeping this from them is so stressful! But I'm worried about their reactions... I don't want to say they're homophobic, but their reactions to topics about the LGBTQ+ community don't always go well... My siblings, are.... Homophobic, yeah. They make rude jokes about the LGBTQ+ community so I don't know if I want to tell them. My mother, bless her, says she would support me if I came out (I am her daughter after all) but she always looks grossed out or like she's going to throw up when I talk about girls dating girls or guys dating guys. I can tell she doesn't mean to be rude, so I do want her to know, but I'm scared as to what her reaction might be... Thoughts?
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I want to come out to my family because I am a proud bisexual, but they are really homophobic, and I don't know how they'd react. Should I come out? And if so, then how? Helpp
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Do you ever feel like every day people put you in a box based on who they think you should be? It's not like I think I'm the only one or anything, but every day I feel trapped inside that box and I cant move an inch without scrutiny. It's not like I can come out to anyone, because I'm still figuring things out and my mom is homophobic. The shi**y thing about this is that I feel like everyone is so focused on what I should be...especially when I dont act like it. Especially when the conversation turns to a future partner and I just wanna tell people the truth but I cant because I cant live five more years of my life knowing no one will see me for who I am, no matter what I identity as. It's always a label like boy or girl or nonbinary. Lesbian or gay or... WHATEVER but cant we just move beyond those things and just accept people as people... I would say more but I think I said enough for one night. Sorry for the length I will hopefully do better next time
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Hello y'all, I'm Chris and I'm 14. I'm Bi and I have a boyfriend but lately I've been wondering about my sexuality. I think I might be gay or pan but also trans, genderfluid or non-binary. I might also be polyamorous. Everything is so messed up in my head and I really don't know what to do so I'd love if someone helped or gave me some tips. Cheerz to all ya queerz, Chris
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dating my abusive relationship am i in love?
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Ive lived in the same city for about 9 years and now im moving 2-3 h away. I was sure i had a good amount of friends, but now, this summer, almost noone has talked to me. I have 2 friends who have wanted to hang out. A few girls from my class said they would host a sending away party for me, but now they dont talk to me. Ive felt so alone for months now. Because of my moms job, i havent seen her a lot either. Everything i do feels wrong. Im scared of going to a new school with new people, cuz i dont exactly fit in. Talking about my problems and feelings feels like im doing it for attention. Im always confused and angry with myself. Ive ruined 3 friend/relationships this year by having feelings. Im scared i wont make it through this year.
