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WaterfallDaisy

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  1. Hey guys, I've been having a few issues with an online gaming community. Some of the things that people are posting are so rude and hurtful. Has anyone else experienced this?
  2. Feel like when people are talking about going to new places/meeting new people the down times don't really get spoken about. Think it's really important to share these stories so people know that they're not a failure!
  3. Might start doing a regular poll for some fun if this one gets many votes. Let me know what you think! Invisibility Teleportation Mind reading Flying I don't need a superpower because I'm already amazing Comment what yours would be! Mine is teleportation! There's nothing worse after a long day then a long journey home
  4. Hey @IonaC16 how're you doing?
  5. Oh that's odd, maybe one of the staff members can sort that out for you!
  6. @Stormy_Skies it sounds like you know loads about sexuality, you've really helped me to understand how multidimensional it is. It would be really cool to read about it in a blog to educate others who may not know what omnisexuality is. Just an idea if you fancy it
  7. Hey guys, I just wanted to come on here and talk about my experience with going to uni in case anyone was joining a new school/uni and had some anxieties about it. I personally feel like going to uni is built up to be this huge, amazing experience that everyone is supposed to love, but in reality (for me) it didn't work out like that, and people need to talk about the other side of it and how lonely it can be sometimes. By no means am I writing this to put people off going, because, as a recent graduate, I don't regret going at all and I think it was a good learning experience and it has made me a better person for it. I know some people who've had amazing experiences and have made the best of friends. Unfortunately that doesn't happen to everyone and that is something you have to think about before going and I personally didn't mentally prepare myself for that side of things. I went to my first uni and was housed with people that I didn't really get on with (they weren't very sociable and preferred to stay in their rooms), this made it difficult for me to make friends initially and bummed me out quite a lot because I saw all my secondary school friends having a great time with their new friends and I just wasn't experiencing the same thing. This got progressively worse for me and I was feeling very lonely and having to travel home most weekends so I could have some company. I made the decision to drop out of this uni after a few months, I felt like I'd disappointed myself as I'd worked so hard to be there in the first place. No one told me about the possibility of being so lonely at uni and I had gone in with really high hopes only for my confidence and self-esteem to be knocked. My anxiety was at an all time high at this point, I'd let myself down, I had no purpose and I felt lost in the world. But it was so nice to go home and spend time with my friends/family and unwind in an environment i felt comfortable in. I took the time out to appreciate the things that I like doing, working on myself and my interests and this is just what I needed to get back to my fun, loving self. After a few months at home I made the decision to reapply to a different uni (one that was closer to home). I already knew what to expect, could it go that wrong again? September came and uni was right around the corner, I was soooo nervous to start again and meet new people. What if the same thing happened all over again? I moved into my house and it was NOT what I expected at all. Everyone was SO nice and friendly, and it made me feel so much more comfortable, especially as my previous experience was not what I had expected. This alone gave me the confidence boost I needed to integrate myself into the 'uni lifestyle', and I was able to make a solid group of friends and dive straight into my studies. 4 years later I am so glad that I put myself out there again and had another shot at it. I now love learning and if I had let my first experience defeat me then I wouldn't be who I was today, or where I am today If anyone who's reading this is worried or anxious about starting uni/school, just remember to persevere with something you love because it pays off in the end. And if that particular place or course isn't right for you, there'll be more opportunities, so try not to feel bogged down or disheartened. Of course my personal experience of uni doesn't mean everyone's will be like that. All of my friends had really positive experiences. But I think because I went in thinking it was going to be this amazing, eye-opening thing, I was super disappointed and disheartened when it wasn't what I expected. I feel like I've just been on a rant about my experiences, but I wanted to tell people that it's okay not to be okay, and these setbacks make you who you are in the long-run. I honestly feel like life is one big roller-coaster, when you feel like you're at the bottom the only way is up! I hope sharing my experience helped anyone who was perhaps feeling a bit disheartened about something. Keep trying because you're amazing and you can do anything you set your mind to WaterfallDaisy x
  8. Yes good thank you!! AHH I hate the rain, too cold
  9. Hey @Loutte welcome!
  10. hey @jd_27 if it's making you unhappy and if there's something else you'd prefer to do then I would. No point sticking something out if it makes your personal life difficult! I also asked a Q about tips for dealing with anxiety on another thread so I'll link you if people have come up with suggestions
  11. @lucysswag maybe ask if she wants to go out for the day and do something fun, like go to the beach or the cinema - might take both your minds off whatever is going on and help you to repair your friendship again
  12. @Alwin that's so true! some people have a lot more going on behind the screen then they show
  13. I'm not really sure as I've never felt this way before. Does anyone have any tips for dealing with anxiety?
  14. I'm feeling super anxious about the restrictions lifting in the UK. I know that everyone's going to be out seeing friends and family without social distancing and no masks, I'm paranoid that I might catch something or give something to my parents. Is anyone else feeling nervous about 'freedom day'?
  15. I don't blame you for feeling like that, must be awful to feel left out and disheartened by your best friends' actions. Maybe she's going through some stuff and is finding it difficult to talk about she's just taking it out on you by being distant? I would sit her down and try and have a proper heart to heart about how you're feeling about it all, she might not even realise that she's being off with you
  16. hey @itachi, how did your exam go? I was so bad in school, I mainly put it down to the teachers because their teaching styles didn't interest me! Try not to blame yourself because there could be a whole range of reasons why school is going badly that are out of your control! I got the lowest grade in my class, but still managed to get into college and find a subject that I really enjoy. If you're into gaming and PCs there's tons of jobs in the gaming and IT industries that want people! Try and find your niche and go from there
  17. That tip has really helped me @Allayne, focusing on what I like about myself has really boosted my self-esteem and made me see myself in a different way. Thanks for sharing your experience
  18. Wish someone told me how addictive it is I mainly use mine as a photo book for memories now rather than uploading for likes
  19. hey @Ellie-may, I'm sorry that you feel this way everyone is unique and beautiful in their own way so you should never feel 'ugly'. I can definitely appreciate it is easier to say that and harder to really believe it, but you are special and don't forget it I used to have bad acne a few years ago, and something that helped me when i was feeling a bit self-conscious was a face mask followed by a warm towel, i recommend - let me know what you think!
  20. Hi, yeah all good! Just looking to make some new friends on this amazing online community
  21. Hey guys, I'm new here. How is everyone doing? I'm definitely enjoying the UK summer, hopefully it stays sunny and hot for a few more months!
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