Feel like I’m losing all my friends in Friends and Family Posted 15 hours ago Hey It sounds like you're carrying a lot of stress at the moment, and I totally get why given how your best friend is feeling right now. How are you doing? I hope you're as okay as you can be. I'm thinking, instead of the school finding out, could you maybe speak to your best friend's parents about how she is at the moment? I think that with self-harm, it can often be a way to cope, and if that's taken away, then it can throw the person off-balance, and the best way is to support the person to reduce the self-harm gradually and find another way to cope. What do you think? Also, how is your other friend who is harming themselves at the moment? I hope to hear back from you soon. I just want to say that you sound like such a caring friend and they are definitely lucky to have you. Speak soon.