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  1. Muahahahahaahaaaa Ghostie here. Watch your back this Halloween because I'm here to cause some havoc on the Ditch the Label Community . I think what this Community needs is a decent game of trick or treat... so who's in? Comment below with trick OR treat if you're brave enough... >:) - Ghostie
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  2. . you matter you are loved: we love you: we care about you and your AMAZING: @Harper @Monsoon @Blue22031 @Firefly 23 @Blondie The best and most beautiful tThe most beautiful things are not associated with money; they are memories and moments. .. things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart. ... One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood. Once you eliminate the impossible, whatever remains, no matter how improbable, must be the truth. It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye Beauty is power; a smile is its sword. There is no definition of beauty, but when you can see someone's spirit coming through, something unexplainable, that's beautiful to me. ... Let us live for the beauty of our own reality. ... Real beauty is to be true to oneself. You will face many defeats in life, but never let yourself be defeated. - ... The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall. - ... In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. ... Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game. - Believe you can and you're halfway there. When you have a dream, you've got to grab it and never let go. I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination. No matter what you're going through, there's a light at the end of the tunnel. “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” — Gandhi. “Live for what's worth dying for, and leverage technology to create the world you wish to see.” “The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.” “Let your unique awesomeness and positive energy inspire confidence in others.” “Wherever you go, no matter what the weather, always bring your own sunshine.” “If you want light to come into your life, you need to stand where it is shining.” “You can get everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.” — ... “Inspiration does exist, but it must find you working.” — ... “Don't settle for average. ... “Show up, show up, show up, and after a while the muse shows up, too.” — ... “Don't bunt. “You can get everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.” — ... “Inspiration does exist, but it must find you working.” — ... “Don't settle for average. ... “Show up, show up, show up, and after a while the muse shows up, too.” — ... “Don't bunt. Only I can change my life. ... Don't watch the clock; do what it does. ... If you can dream it, you can do it. ... Ever tried. ... When something is important enough, you do it even if the odds are not in your favor. Start where you are. ... With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts. The best is yet to be.” – ... “Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.” – ... “Do good and good will come to you.” – ... “A positive mindset brings positive things.” – ... “Positivity always wins… ... “When things go wrong, don't go with them.” – ... “Live life to the fullest and focus on the positive.” – ... “Keep looking up… @Emberfrost12 @BiShadow!23 @JessFlower33
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  3. I havn't seen any cyberbullying, homophobia, etc. everyone is nice, and all the topic iv'e seen have been answered, overall this community is amazing
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  4. Hallween-you get to be anything, and nobody cares
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  5. So, for those of you who don’t know, I’m nonbinary (AFAB) but I also have enbyphobic parents. So I decided to write a (full) nonbinary parody of this (which has been trending on LGBTQ tik tok). Consider this as a sort of vent (maybe), but I also just re-wrote it for my enjoyment. Enjoy! Tw: Censored swearing Not Ken or Barbie One little kid Played with only girls on the playground Just like the rest Didn't stick out from the crowd But deep inside themself They knew that they were different But they pushed it down 'Cause nobody would even listen Their parents always saying "Girl, when you grow up You're gonna be a nice woman Make sure you’re pretty enough You'll be living a life Like Barbie and Ken Come on suck it up And forget this nonsense" What if they’re not Ken or Barbie? Why should they have to say sorry? Tell me do you even listen To all the dumb sh*t you're slippin' We can be who we want to Don't say we’re not supposed to If they’re not Ken or Barbie They don’t ever have to say sorry No, not to you Not to me Not to anyone, anyone, anyone No, not to you Not to me Not to anyone, anyone, anyone 15 years old Feeling like a stranger at home Keeping their head down low Hide away so that nobody will know Avoiding mum and dad When they're asking "Are you someone’s girlfriend?" 'Cause Lord forbid they see Their true identity Their parents always saying "Girl, when will you see You'll be happy I know You’re a woman to-be You'll be such a great Barbie Just gotta find yourself Make sure you act like a lady It's what you're born to be What if they’re not Ken or Barbie? Why should they have to say sorry? Tell me do you even listen To all the dumb sh*t you're slippin' We can be who we want to Don't say we’re not suppose to If they’re not Ken or Barbie They don’t ever have to say sorry No, not to you Not to me Not to anyone, anyone, anyone Not to you Not to me Not to anyone, anyone, anyone No, no They don’t have to say sorry No, no They’re never gonna say sorry They never wanted to be Ken or Barbie They never ever have to say sorry Nobody is gonna listen To all the dumb sh*t you're slippin' We can be who we want to Don't say they’re not supposed to They’ll always not be Ken or Barbie And they don’t ever have to say sorry To you
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  6. omg yeessssssssssss i am so happy this community is so awesome thank you to @Monsoon @Daisie and @Harper for making it awesome and loving to be able to express ourselves Big hugs
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  7. Hello @Vii How are you feeling today? It's completely normal to fear judgement from other people over this. There is a huge amount of shame experienced by people who are violated in this way, and I just want you to know that this is a safe space where you are free to express yourself, and we will never judge you. I'm really glad to hear that you are safe from him now. It is never too late to report it, and as Lilly said, the service you report to will understand and help you. What do you think? Also, yes, it definitely would be good to explore your sexuality more. I'm wondering, how do you think they would react if you did tell them?
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  8. never too late to report you can report at any time we can support you. you don't need evidence the investigators will understand and will help you
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  10. it is rape and i would talk to the police ditch the label and support you with reporting it, I reported my rape and I got supported through out the whole thing, I will post a link to a website that supports women in talking and reporting their attacks, as we care! I felt stuck when I got abused it was tricky I started self injuring myself but I am now free and I have a little girl but I hope you can feel safe around men and keep talking welcome to the community, https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ they can help by phone 0808 802 9999 Webchat and you can find your nearest rape centre to you hugs, Lilly
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  11. might catch a early night - sleep well lovely people.
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  12. I have to go *sad enby crying noises* bye-bye
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  13. Yeah..it's fine me and my gf broke up a month ago but it still hurts.. *Hugs*
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  14. read and add some if you may hope it brings you a smile @Monsoon @Harper @Blc @Blue22031
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  15. You have an amazing friend if: They always support you, even when it's not really what they want. They NEVER say mean or private things to other people behind your back. You share your deepest secrets without shame or embarrassment. You do crazy things together. You probably should've had at least one sleepover (that means you really like being with that person). They NEVER abandoned you. You have a fake friend if: They only talk to you about them or favors. You are nicer to them then they are to you. They exclude you from "small private talks". They talk about u behind your back, and you didn't even know. They never really pay attention to u and won't realize if you're not doing good. They completely have their "favorite friend" which is not u. You don't feel safe with them.
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  17. Of course! Logging off now, got houses to haunt. But I'll be back to send out my tricks and treats tomorrow. Muahahahaa...
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  19. your too kind and supportive such a amazing mentor
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  20. Hi guys I'm new here I like video games and absolutely love reading I'm a bit of a bookworm to be honest! I've been through a lot this past year so please be nice to me!
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  21. # Lit the candle yesterday for mental health day
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  22. If and when you see this your so strong!
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  23. @Monsoon @Blue22031 lmaoooo I am wanting Christmas to hurry up!!
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  24. such a caring person. sending hugs to you both feel free to vent
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  25. That's sooo weird, it doesn't make any sense why she would deliberately leave a friend out yet feel comfortable enough to ask you for help!!! she doesn't sound like a good friend at all!!! i would say talk to her about it first, but then if she continues to be rude then spend your time with epeople who are more deserving of it!!
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  26. Hey don't you worry...just hold on for a little more time okay?? .. Something better is still waiting out there and if you really want to drop out and do something different ..do it...at the end of the day you are by yourself so you have to do things for you...People judge you everytime no matter what you do...So hang in there...You will find your light...love you...Have a great day(I mean its morning in here .. don't know what time zone it is there)
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  27. This is really great advice @Randomgirl.. You have every right to privacy - it might be interesting to understand why your parents want to keep an eye on your feed, perhaps it's not to invade your privacy but just to check that you are safe? It might be a good conversation to have with them and if it is about safety, maybe regular chats and checkins with you could be a better way of doing it, for example. You are definitely entitled to privacy and safe spaces and it's perfectly normal to want that boundary.
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  28. I'm glad you like it - our aim was to create a safe space for young people to speak about their issues. We hope you continue to enjoy it
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  29. My parents used to do this too. They’ve laid off a lot though in the last year so it’s ok. But god only knows how bad it would be if they decided to check it now. Not that I have anything I shouldn’t have on my phone, but a lot of it is personal, especially my tiktok liked vids, Instagram feed and that stuff. My mother wouldn’t understand most of it anyway. But exactly like you said, I haven’t come out to anyone yet, and It would be a serious give away for anyone to go through my phone I even get kind of worried when I’m with friends and we’re looking at something on my phone in case they would see something. But in your case, it depends how understanding your parents are. If you were to politely explain that there’s nothing there they need to see and that it’s personal would they respect that?
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  30. but why do you think that? and even if I don't know you, you are wrong, I can tell you, that you are good enough as you are
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  31. Hi Lilly, This is a really helpful post, thank you for sharing. We really appreciate the support that you offer to others here.
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  32. Ohh im sorry didn't know. I'm trying to be ok but stuff's hard yaknow? Anyways I won't do that again. Have a great day
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  33. I am sick of being tired of life. I am sick and tired of getting judged because i am a teen mum due to abuse. I am scared I might do something and i am terrified due to i want to go but dont want to loose close friends and family. Need some I pretend i am okay and happy but inside i am crying of pain because i take it for other people and myself which hurts more. I dont want to come across as selfish but i am really letting myself down because nobody is supporting me and i am tired to hold on anymore nothing to be happy for or yeah I get judged and it hurts me because I know that my place in this world isnt loved. No one has ever said anything nice about me or to me and all i get is hate, body shaming and words that make me feel really bad about myself, i am tired of supporting others then not getting anything back like i need support but you take me for granted and abuse me which hurts and is still hurting my soul now that you've gone far away from me. I gave you love and time and you go and throw it away and hurt me when all i did was care for you in your darkest times and i sat and stayed by you until you felt better. i cared and loved for you to go and abuse and hurt me? why am i not good enough and all you did ws body shame me. i am not writing this to punish you im writing this to show that maybe somebody out there might actually care and want to hear my story. I am not strong but I am powerful to carry on through shitty times. You gave me a little girl when I was going through abuse from you and i didnt hate you for it but you still treated me like a toy which no-one shou;ld have to go through and you enjoyed it. I am writing this to ensure girls know they can rise and talk about it as it wasnt your fault. I am strong years later and getting justice for myself as i cant deal with the heart ache of feeling unwanted and unsafe and doing things to myself i didnt want to do but had no other way to let my pain go away. this might show that im weak and not strong but ive done campaigns about this and help and supported young girls with this as they deserve help because no way should any male take advantage and abuse their dignity and ruin their lives and it's not how life and justice systems work nowadays and we all MATTER whatever the situation. I am trying to be strong but it's hard and i hope i can feel less built up in my heart and chest that i am talking about this and taking it on the chin that i am not at fault for such brutal crimes that were put and made against me as they took my dignity away from by using me and other things. I am stronger and braver so keep calm reach out and get supported you MATTER If you need someone to talk to about any crime that has been putting yourself as risk of harm call these numbers to ensure your safe and get justice - Rape crisis - Samaritans, Shout and 999 in a emergency - here's their info - shout - 85258 rape crisis https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Samaritans 116123 I cry out for support because of the body shaming i'm getting it's hard but i dislike how people treat me, I treat them with respect but all i get is hate comments negative comments about my weight and how thin i apparently am which is none of their buissness if i am honest as that's for me to know why i am 'thin' and they have no reason to ask so i find it unfair as i fight back by telling them its none of their buissness and to keep their mouth shut to stop asking me am i being a spiteful bitch? i seem really horrible but im not i am nice and caring but seem a bitch @Harper is this okay to post?
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  34. IDK only higher ups can the only way i can private people is through email.. -_-
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  35. You are one of the BEST people that I know!!! I am sure that you are an awesome mother!! (You are an awesome Chat mama!!)
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  36. you okay chat daughter?
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  37. I can try! (High school can be tough sometimes)
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  38. Hi! Okay, so this is something that I am genuinely curious about. Where do you draw the line between a friendship and a relationship? For context: oftentimes when I make friends, I grow really close personal connections with one person as I find it easier than group settings. This means that we'll often hang out just the two of us. It ranges from something really chill, like hanging out at my place, to going to the movies or on picnics. These are activities I've done in groups of friends, but can now admit are more 'date like' activities. Which one-on-one activities aren't though? It's not like we're going to candle lit dinner's!! Anyway, I've always thought that the only difference between friends and dating was intimacy (like hand holding and kissing), but now on I have lost friends on more than one occasion, only to realize that they may have had a crush on me, a year later. I am just a bit too dense to notice it at the time! It's not like I wouldn't have been interested in dating them, either! I have just grown up believing it's better to have friends than to have relationships that may end. But seeing as they have ended anyway, I'd really like to know when it's worth taking the risk of asking them out. I've never been asked out but like I said about a year after someone likes me, I find out. I really can't read social cues though, so I need to be told, or the situation just has to be so obvious that I can't deny it. So, of course I haven't asked anyone out either... (to be fair I can be a bit of a wuss too... ) Anyway, I am interested in getting into the dating scene, but how do you even do that? Like when do you think to yourself, "Yes this person may want to be more than just a friend!" Hahaha, this is such a mess, but I'd appreciate some advice!
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  39. yeah! blm needs to be talked about so much more, because it's more than those big hate crimes. the blue eye, brown eye experiment is really interesting to show this, if you have time to watch a quick video on it. because it really puts the small micro aggressions into perspective for those who aren't a poc and therefore can't relate as well. of course systemic racism and all of that is important to, but sometimes zooming can be even more impactful.
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  40. see that's the thing, I feel like I can't really define my type by looks (like it's set of personality traits and interests)... idk if that makes sense. if it's not too personal, what's your type? also!! that!! not blaming yourself for loosing friends is so difficult! but it's definitely something I'm working on. :))
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  41. why do you guys think I'm amazing?
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