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i am curently sitting in class either bighing ignored or having kids say rude things to me and it makes me wonder why cant we all get along we are all difrent but that should not make us hate eachother and now I am thinking why does the amount of the pigment Mellinin our skin produsec due to were we or our anstesters are from due to the sranght of UVB rays from the sun have anything to to with who we are? yet it seems like it does, you could be the best person in the world, but if you have darker skin you could be treated unfairly or even attacked. I have a friend at youth group who has darker skin and she is one of the nicest people I know yet she told us taht at school she was called the N word and I hate that. It makes me sick to think that some people will view me as  better than her becuse of my fair skin, that is untill they find out I love girls I am TIRED of hiding who I am, yet I know that if I don't I will be putting my self in danger, I am just lucky to have a good family and to be alble to find the good people out there. Sorry I dumped this here but I just needed to get it of my chest and cant talk to my partner right now.

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey there,

You're right; there are so many injustices in the world, and when we really think about it, they often come down to the most ridiculous factors, like where we are from, the way we look, how much money we have, and even our skin colour as you said. It sounds like the kids in your class aren't treating you very nicely, as well as your friend at youth group. I'm wondering, have you both spoken to the adults in charge there about what's going on? They will be able to help you out. 

Also, I totally get what you're saying about being tired of hiding who you are. Can I ask, when you say that you will be putting yourself in danger if you don't hide who you are, are you able to tell me a little bit more about this?

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I come from a very Republican city that as a whole is not very supportive and that is having an increasing crime rate so I get nervous if the topic is brought up in public 

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey Saphira,

Thank you for telling me that. So, by talking revealing this part of yourself, what do you think then might happen? 

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I don’t know but I am already treated as an outcast for the other things I love ( reptiles books fantasy ) that I am scared to say anything else about me 

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey there,

Sorry to hear that you are being treated as an outcast for the things you like. I'm wondering, is there anywhere at the moment where you aren't treated this way? If so, how does it feel when you're in that space? 🙂

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during the play becuse all of the other kids do it for fall sport credit but I do it becuse I love to do it and end up careing the whole play

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey there,

Oh, that's great! I think that when we feel like an outcast, it's even more important to spend more time in environments where we feel like we belong. I'm wondering, are you able to spend more time doing that? Also, is there anywhere else where you feel welcome? 🙂 

 

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well I used to feel like that at youth group but some really rude things were said last night directed at my partner, two of our freinds and I that had my partner in tears

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey there,

I'm sorry to hear that there was a negative experience last night. Would you like to tell me a little bit more about what happened?

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I totally agree @Nikita my best friend is a guy, it is totally strange that most people see it as weird, and as a month ago he has been my only best friend ( as I am now dating my other best friend ) 

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