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Hihi I am sorry if I hadn't posted in while school juct came back in session last week and I have been swamped...

I also told me two girl friends that I was bi and they were fine with it they actually celebrated! (I was overthinking coming out)

I have been wanting to tell my one guy friend (who I really trust) but i feel like it will be akward I wanted to know if anyone had any advice on how to come out to a guy.ย 

I still haven't told my family that I'm bi so that's next on the list (after I tell my guy friend)

Thanks!!ย ๐Ÿ’›

@sflowergirl

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hello! you said you wanted advice on how to come out to a guy, and I mean, I've done it a few times so I'm gonna try and offer the best advice I can (as someone who also identifies as a guy). it's definitely harder if he's like, a cis straight guy, but one of my best friends is a cis straight guy and the way i came out to him was kinda funny, and it just happened, so maybe doing something similar might help- we were just talking one day, talking about the tobey mcguireย  spiderman movies of all things, and i just randomly said "i don't know if you're into guys but i sure as hell am and harry is hot" and then boom I was out to himย ๐Ÿ˜‚. I mean, I imagine he already had some kind of idea I wasย ๐Ÿ’…ย but that was the first time we actually talked about it. maybe you could just bring up something like celebrity crushes or fictional crushes and drop hints that you're into girls too until he gets it.ย 

that's the best advice i could think of, hope it helps- and let us know how it goes :)ย 

-damian

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7 hours ago, dami? said:

hello! you said you wanted advice on how to come out to a guy, and I mean, I've done it a few times so I'm gonna try and offer the best advice I can (as someone who also identifies as a guy). it's definitely harder if he's like, a cis straight guy, but one of my best friends is a cis straight guy and the way i came out to him was kinda funny, and it just happened, so maybe doing something similar might help- we were just talking one day, talking about the tobey mcguireย  spiderman movies of all things, and i just randomly said "i don't know if you're into guys but i sure as hell am and harry is hot" and then boom I was out to himย ๐Ÿ˜‚. I mean, I imagine he already had some kind of idea I wasย ๐Ÿ’…ย but that was the first time we actually talked about it. maybe you could just bring up something like celebrity crushes or fictional crushes and drop hints that you're into girls too until he gets it.ย 

that's the best advice i could think of, hope it helps- and let us know how it goes :)ย 

-damian

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Thank you! I really needed this I was at a loss of what to do!! I will let you know how it goes.

๐Ÿ’›ย @sflowergirl

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5 hours ago, sflowergirl said:

I cant put up with this stuff anymore

i really hope things get better for you- i know coming out is hard. i've been out to my friends (as pan) for a few years. i came out to my family as pan this summer, and it was rough.ย  i just recently came out as trans to my friends and i thankfully have a great support system of people who've been nothing but kind. (i haven't told my parents I'm trans, and i probably won't until i move out in a few years) i hope that coming out keeps going well for youย ๐Ÿค

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good night, and thanks for all the support I feel so much better! it's 8:00 soย ย need to get some sleep since I wake up at around 6:00 (I live in pennsylvania lol).

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