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a couple days ago I was watching this movie and I couldn't help but be attracted to the girl main character...

After finishing the movie (which was really good) I decided that I was going to take a bisexual quiz. I had been battling myself on this and I didn't and still don't really know why I did but I did. So after watching the movie just did it. The test results showed that I was Bi and I read the little article down below and things started making since. it was like I was seeing the world for the first time even though I had been living in it for a long time. 

An now a few days later still seeing the world with fresh eyes I feel like I am going screw up my life and make thing awkward with the people around me. so after lift a burning question off my chest I have now replaced it with a twenty pound weight on my shoulders.

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I am bi too and I js found out recently. Don’t feel obliged to come out to anyone if u know that they won’t be supportive. Explore yourself and your identity more , and then you could try and come out to the people that you know will for sure support you and be there. 

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Hey mate. It's going to be okay I promise. Sexuality is a tough topic these days. Let me assure you of one thing. The only way to ruin your life is to not accept the fullness of yourself. What I mean by that is a lot of people conform to normal societal ways. A lot of people move into cookie cutter houses in copy and paste neighborhoods and it's always a competition of who has the bigger house, who was the prettiest daughter, who has the nicest car, etc. Believe me when I tell you that these people are slowly ruining their lives because they are focused on outdoing everybody else while inside, they feel empty

embrace yourself mate. Be yourself. Everyone else is taken. Accept these feelings, and embrace them. Some people might not like it, but that doesn't mean that there isn't a whole world of people waiting to meet you. You're amazing just the way you are. 

Now I identify as I straight, cisgender, male...but that doesn't mean I don't sometimes have thought like, "man...ryan reynolds is kinda hot" or, "I think it would be cool to be a girl."

It's completely normal to have these feelings, and you should live your life according to how you feel

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23 hours ago, Alexa332 said:

I am bi too and I js found out recently. Don’t feel obliged to come out to anyone if u know that they won’t be supportive. Explore yourself and your identity more , and then you could try and come out to the people that you know will for sure support you and be there. 

tysm!!! 💛💛

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20 hours ago, Andrew_ said:

Hey mate. It's going to be okay I promise. Sexuality is a tough topic these days. Let me assure you of one thing. The only way to ruin your life is to not accept the fullness of yourself. What I mean by that is a lot of people conform to normal societal ways. A lot of people move into cookie cutter houses in copy and paste neighborhoods and it's always a competition of who has the bigger house, who was the prettiest daughter, who has the nicest car, etc. Believe me when I tell you that these people are slowly ruining their lives because they are focused on outdoing everybody else while inside, they feel empty

embrace yourself mate. Be yourself. Everyone else is taken. Accept these feelings, and embrace them. Some people might not like it, but that doesn't mean that there isn't a whole world of people waiting to meet you. You're amazing just the way you are. 

Now I identify as I straight, cisgender, male...but that doesn't mean I don't sometimes have thought like, "man...ryan reynolds is kinda hot" or, "I think it would be cool to be a girl."

It's completely normal to have these feelings, and you should live your life according to how you feel

I really am thankful to you. I am a mess right now and I cant understand myself right now, but I can...se what I mean😆 honestly though, thank you for giving me advice it is extremely helpful since I am a coward or dummy or idk🤣.

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