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If You Love Someone Don't Cheat. If You Want To Cheat, Set Them Free

Chabela

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Hey everyone. I think I am more than convinced that my girlfriend is cheating on me, but that's alright. You might think that I'm a fool for staying with her, but tell me this; how do you leave someone if my heart gets tugged by the half of my heart, and is only whole with her? Heartbreak is real, yes, but I've never experienced it. In all of my many relationships, I've never felt anything from the breakups. and I know you might call me stone by reacting not at all but I've never really truly felt with any of them. and to my girlfriend that knew that I wasn't enough for her, I don't want to make you feel guilty reading this because I want you to be happy and that happiness doesn't seem to be produced from me to you anymore.  I will listen for your terms to function this to something healthy so that I can forgive you or make boundaries and conditions. 

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Hey there,

I'm sorry to hear about your girlfriend possibly cheating. I'm wondering, have you two spoken about it yet? If so, how did it go? 

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partha2004

Hey there...

I do understand how you feel... it feels like getting ripped apart and being sucked into a vortex, isn't it?

You don't have to feel guilty... you tried as much as you can, isn't it?

You gave your best, you tried to complete her. Sometimes things go awry, and i can definitely second that.

We all have a long way to go, and I am certain that you will find someone better than her. It will take time, but during this interval, love yourself as much as you can. As long as you aren't a twin, you are only a single, unique specimen in the entirety of this world!

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Chabela
On 12/19/2021 at 11:37 AM, partha2004 said:

Hey there...

I do understand how you feel... it feels like getting ripped apart and being sucked into a vortex, isn't it?

You don't have to feel guilty... you tried as much as you can, isn't it?

You gave your best, you tried to complete her. Sometimes things go awry, and i can definitely second that.

We all have a long way to go, and I am certain that you will find someone better than her. It will take time, but during this interval, love yourself as much as you can. As long as you aren't a twin, you are only a single, unique specimen in the entirety of this world!

yeps and yeah I'm doing better and am celebrating peoples relationships and being happy for them, I mean, I am the person who gets happiness by seeing others happy so it isn't so hard so far. And if she ever does come into my mind, its only positive :) so it'll be okay and I hope it'll go the same for you and awh thank you, I will give some good word to the universe for you ^-^

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