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So my girlfriend just broke up with me over text and honestly...I don't really think I'll ever get over it. She said she just wasn't ready for a relationship which I understand but, it still hurts. What do I do? I don't wanna start self-harming again because of something like this.

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey @Kiera

I'm really sorry to hear about this. How are you feeling today? I saw that some time has passed since you last posted, and I just thought I'd check in to see if you're feeling any better. We are here for you. 

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I feel depressed. I don't really think she stopped loving me because she didn't say anything like that, she just said she wasn't ready for a relationship right now.

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey there,

That sounds really tough; it's so hard when we want more from someone, but it isn't right for them. We can end up feeling really rejected and worthless which can be hard to work through. How are you feeling today? Are you having any contact with her at the moment, or are you having space? 

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I still feel really bad, like I did something to cause this, and I hate to admit it, but every time I think about her, I just can't keep it together.

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey there,

It sounds like those feelings are still really raw for you, and when we experience them, it can seem like they're never going to settle down. However, time is the best healer of this kind of hurt. What do you think? Do you think there's anything you could do to help yourself move forward?

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I think there is and I told my ex last night how I really felt, and I think I feel a little better now. And I think I could've handled it a bit better, like I could've acted more mature to it, but that was my first break up

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey there,

I'm glad to hear that you're feeling better now you've told your ex how you really feel. As you say, this was your first breakup, and even if you have experienced them before, they're still hard to get through, so I think you're doing really well. What is next for you now? Are you happy to be single for a while or would you like a new partner? 

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey there,

Oh, that's exciting! How do you feel about it? Do you like him too? 

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey,

Yeah, it's a pretty great feeling when someone you like also likes you too :)

Have you told him how you feel? If so, how did it go? 

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So I feel kinda bad now because I just got together with my partner who is genderfluid and we've been besties for 8 years...and I know he likes me but...I kinda feel bad now😅

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I feel bad because I know he likes me and I was sitting with my other friends at lunch and he heard me say I have a partner and he's really...touchy meaning he likes to mess with my hair, lay his head on my shoulder and stuff like that and he keeps saying things like "oh we should totally hang out on valentines day" and i respond with "yeah well i was thinking it would just be me and my partner..." and he says "can i come?" and i always feel guilty about it because i told him no

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey there,

Ah, okay, thanks for explaining. I'm wondering, does your partner know about how he is really touchy with you? If so, how does he feel about that? 

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My partner know's because I also have other friends who are really touchy but they don't mind.

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey,

That's good that they don't mind. How are things at the moment, especially with your relationship? 

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me and my partner broke up sadly. we're still friends tho. i got another partner after that breakup but they broke up with me 1 week ago from wednesday. we haven't talked much since then

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  • Digital Mentor

Hey,

How come they broke up with you? What happened?

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