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Hi, this is my first blog and I’m new here so I don’t really know how to use this.
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So basically, my friend Susan who I’ve been friends with for almost 2 years now always gets mad at me when I don’t choose her as a partner or I do something without her or if I hang out with my other friend without her. She always says things like “no it’s ok, I’ll just be alone AGAIN.” “You guys seem to hate me so I’ll just leave because I’m not wanted.” “You guys always be partners and you always leave me out.” “You guys suck, I wish I had real friends who cared about me.”
It causes a lot of fights between her and my other friend, to the point where they weren’t friends for a few months, but I’m always stuck in the middle of conflict and I never really know what to do. I always try to be fair, and share my time equally between my friends, but Susan always reacts as if I bully her and never spend time with her. I don’t know if Susan knows that she’s maybe trying to guilt trip me, maybe it’s unintentional?
Is this manipulation? Is she a toxic or fake friend? What can I do to try solve this problem?